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Once  it  meant clothes.  But an early miniskirt revealed that my legs were too short from  knee to ankle.   If it ended fashionably above the knees,

I looked like a foreshortened lampshade – and  worse with a skirt (break in the middle to non existent waist).    I could work round a shorter dress once I had discovered a becoming shape  , the only time I found anything in Vogue I had already bought.

The first psychologist I ever met described clothes to me as  “the exteriorization of self”. 

And I wish  a few more people would look at  and dress what is there, instead of what they wish were there in blind hope of transformation.

There are fashions in everything and  thank you God, I am past doing more than listen or look and make up my own mind to the imponderables.   As in – any camera  adds 30  lbs.

Re director Christopher Nolan’s film of  The Odyssey. 

It’s already  taken gazillions at the  box office and  involves  two or three actors I am always interested in.   I have read its praise (film critic) through to a professor of classics  criticizing the script, emphases and omissions.  If it is as much about anxiety as she found it , it is outstandingly fashionable  – worry and  weirdness.  

But nobody has mentioned the obvious.  

A book is a book is a book is a book, and a film is a different medium.  There are books I  can’t imagine filmed and would rather  the makers didn’t try. I can see the pitfalls, I have seen enough bad scripts commissioned and earning  somebody a living.  Incoherent, shapeless and without style.

If the root of the word fashion is to do with making, it developed historically to include style,

the way in which something is made.   These are quite separate ideas.   I’d like to think Homer earned his breakfast, supper and tea while amassing and writing the stories for which he is known  – I am sure he was but one of many jobbing poets – but any film director, especially  one operating out of  what’s left of an enormous industry, needs to make money on the deal.    

Believe me,  I was married to a film maker.  It’s a very expensive medium – and he didn’t make money.  Five years with a clever man who didn’t recognize that if he couldn’t show a profit, the next budget would be even harder to raise.        

For a very long time, I have walked round  the very word fashion. 

Suspiciously.   Seemed to be about flesh on dreams.  Expensive.   But dreams are only ever that  and one will succeed another.   So, I may consider it but am not easily swayed.

Music:  I don’t listen to much music.  I have learnt to enjoy quiet, almost  certainly a reaction to a noisy world coupled with the rising sensitivities of age.  

The music  that I like remains the music that I like.  There are still sounds and voices that excite me, I could care less who else approves of it, whether memory or innovation.

Too often fashionable experience is governed by how much money you  have to play with.   “I won’t spend £78  plus on a seat for something I am not interested in” remarked a neighbour recently .  I’d have thought  she had the money and would spend it happily to see the latest thing.  Apparently not.  

Same with restaurants and food – because you may like the  surroundings while finding the menu not to your taste.  Eating out is expensive.  Hence the success of the pizza and  the joy in a friend’s voice  telling you “We could meet at …it’s even affordable !”

The phrase  “reassuringly expensive” applies to all too many of the new and existing brands of makeup though  I cannot see wearing makeup in 30 degrees of heat.  Put it on, sweat it off.  Throw money down the drain.

Fashion seems to depend on  desperately wanting to be different, then acknowledged for that difference till the  difference extends to enough people to make you feel  you can safely discard it.  Nobody ignores fashion – it’s in the air we breathe.  But as breath  comes in and goes out again I confess, I am more interested in my own taste than  somebody else’s fashion